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01-06-2024 03:31 PM
01-06-2024 03:31 PM
Re: not coping
That's so sad to hear. Would you consider raising it with them @outlander ?
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01-06-2024 03:35 PM
01-06-2024 03:35 PM
Re: not coping
it doesnt matter how i act, respond, be avaliable to people it never matters. it just keeps being proven that maybe i am better off alone.
even those i paid to support me didnt seem to really want to be around me either
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01-06-2024 03:51 PM
01-06-2024 03:51 PM
Re: not coping
i joined up to try and be apart of something but i just feel more alone then i did before
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01-06-2024 03:54 PM
01-06-2024 03:54 PM
Re: not coping
Sure sounds tough @outlander . Sounds so unfair too. What do you think it is? That is, why do you think it happens? (No need to answer. This is for self reflection.).
To me, you have such a large heart and you are willing to help anyone. I don't understand it either.
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01-06-2024 03:58 PM
01-06-2024 03:58 PM
Re: not coping
ive tried and tried. i do everything to try and improve how i am, my social skills, attitude everything but it never seems to help in any case.
i tried groups for young people, didnt fit in. tried joining a horse club, didnt fit in. this is the second volunteering group ive tried that have some slightly older people like later 30s-50s so some around my age plus some older and i still failed.
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01-06-2024 04:00 PM
01-06-2024 04:00 PM
Re: not coping
Rather than 'fail', I wonder if it's just that you havent' found your place yet? @outlander It doesn't mean you won't.
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01-06-2024 04:03 PM
01-06-2024 04:03 PM
Re: not coping
its always been like it even as a kid.
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01-06-2024 09:27 PM
01-06-2024 09:27 PM
Re: not coping
@outlander I just wanted to stop by and offer a lil hug, hope tonight has been easier on you 💜
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01-06-2024 09:32 PM
01-06-2024 09:32 PM
Re: not coping
I think I’ll be heading to bed soon. I have a double shift tomorrow
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01-06-2024 09:41 PM
01-06-2024 09:41 PM
Re: not coping
Appreciate the honesty @outlander and sorry to hear that. Extra hugs, all yours, coming in hot. Hope you have a restful night 💜